you and your spouse survey...

1. Who is your man/woman? Maureen

2. How long have you been together? It will be 20 years in December 2009

3. Dating/Engaged/Married? Married

4. How old is your man/woman? 40

5. What's his/her middle name? Elizabeth

* * * * * You or your man/woman * * * * *

1. Who eats more? I do

2. Who said "I love you" first? I did

3. Who weighs more? I do by about 75-100 lbs

4. Who sings better? I do, I have had some singing training, she hasnt

5. Who's Older? She is by 4 months

6. Who's smarter? I am in certain things, she is in others

7. Who's temper is worse? mine when it comes to interpersonal things, hers when it comes to child disipline.

8. Who does the laundry? lately her because she is home at the right time to do it...but in the past it was me

9. Who does the dishes? lately she does, same reason, but in the past it was me

10. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? she does, even though she's left handed and slaps me at night accidentally when we sleep.

11. Who's feet are bigger? mine

12. Who's hair is longer? hers

13. Who's better with the computer? I am

14. Who mowes the lawn? she does the gardening. A grass pollen allergy prevents me from doing that

15. Who pays the bills? We both do

16. Who cooks dinner? We both share this responsibility, but I am the better cook...but she's learning...

17. Who drives when you are together? Depends.

18. Who pays when you go out to dinner? I usually do since I am presently allowed to controll the finances...

19. Who's the most stubborn? we are both pretty stubborn.

20. Who is the first one to admit when they're wrong? I am

21. Who's parents do you see more? mine since they are in town, her's are in central MO

22. Who named your pets? Our cats were named by each of us, our turtles by our son.

23. Who kissed who first? She had to make that first move...

24. Who asked who out? I asked her

26. Who's more sensitive? I am by far

27. Who's taller? I am (she's 5'8" I'm 6'0")

28. Who has more friends? she does, I tend towards being more antisocial

29. Who has more siblings? I do, I have 5 she only has 2

30. Who wears the pants in the relationship? I thought it was both of us, and I tried to make it an equal relationship, but it tips during certain stages of life back and forth between us.